Boundaries are not Unbiblical

Have you ever caught yourself wondering if setting boundaries is unloving?

As Christians living in a world that demands much of our productivity and time,

boundaries may seem selfish or even wrong. It may feel difficult to view a

boundary as a supportive tool.

A boundary is not necessarily about control, rather a sustained margin to enhance

our well being while extending compassion.

Biblical scripture says, “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do

flows from it” Proverbs 4:32.

This points us to steward our time, beliefs and relationships in a supportive way,

rather than serving others from an empty cup. Boundaries establish security and

intention.

It is choosing to preserve your peace in a way that is productive. Boundaries

support our capacity to love others intentionally. They promote honesty about the

values we hold.

A healthy boundary may sound like:

● “I would love to help, but today I have to rest since I am not feeling well.”

● “I need some space to process my feelings.”

● “I need honesty in this relationship.”

Jesus used boundaries in his own spiritual walk when he often withdrew to pray

and rest. It’s part of God's design. We encourage you to reflect on ways healthy

boundaries can be established in your life.

If you're needing further support in this area, Christian counseling can help with living this out and strengthening your resilience.

To schedule an appointment, please give us a call at (209) 650-1123 or email us at info@crosstownbehavioralhealth.com.